Irim said it quite well and so, I will direct your attention to her latest post:
Bring them home
There's oh so much I could say, but I won't ramble too much. I'll just point out that we were a military family. We would actually love to still be a military family, but this current conflict made my husband leave it all behind. It makes no sense. It makes my stomach turn. It makes me want to rant about it forever, but I'll spare you.